Win ex back - Less is indeed more

Today we would like to reveal a big secret on the way back to the ex-partner. However, to use this secret is perfectly a real art, we show you the first steps just to master this art. Statistically, every contact with the former partner runs almost reproachfully, and much too impetuous shortly after the separation. The secret is to reverse just that. Everything should be made only in passing, downright subtle and implied. But what exactly does that mean? Your ex-partner's not stupid, he is at the moment of contact less emotional and understood much controlled than you usually that is a fundamental problem. A problem that is thanks to his love of your care much longer. This projection of your / your ex, you have to compensate for sure. But how do it? How else are you going before, when you face difficulties? That's right, you invest - in this case time. So prepare accordingly to the conversation before, but not in some way. So that the whole then not again overwhelmed anyway at the moment of truth, you desperately need visual reminders of your preparation, meaning for example a notepad during a telephone conversation. Please only notes, no complete sentences, it must act absolutely natural. Inevitably, the loud utterance during preparation, practicing your issues and never forget you, you talk a little about emotions, about the past, a few personal details and really never, absolutely never, something that can be interpreted reproachfully. This is exactly what distances and distance you've got plenty now, is not it? Ask for uncertainty of a good friend for advice or use our professional email coaching. Try to identify further an appointment to call that gives your / your ex feel you do not wait the whole day on the call, even if we do it, anyway. Strengthen their self-esteem before the call, put on their favorite clothes, make yourself not getting along and that too tight. For a call? Yes exactly, for a phone call !!! ... and so it is also worthwhile: you arrange a meeting with friends or something else that you can enjoy right after the call. Mention this quiet and casual in a telephone conversation, but really only briefly in the subordinate clause. Something like this: Nice to call with you, but right now am still agreed, therefore, have only about 10 minutes, but already we get back, right? Less is more! Find out next time in our series of "less is actually more": as I prepare to face meetings? Do you have the / Ex gain confidence in himself on the way back, with our team you will have a reliable and competent partner at your side.