Sunday, January 18, 2015

Win ex back - Less is indeed more

Today we would like to reveal a big secret on the way back to the ex-partner. However, to use this secret is perfectly a real art, we show you the first steps just to master this art. Statistically, every contact with the former partner runs almost reproachfully, and much too impetuous shortly after the separation. The secret is to reverse just that. Everything should be made only in passing, downright subtle and implied. But what exactly does that mean? Your ex-partner's not stupid, he is at the moment of contact less emotional and understood much controlled than you usually that is a fundamental problem. A problem that is thanks to his love of your care much longer. This projection of your / your ex, you have to compensate for sure. But how do it? How else are you going before, when you face difficulties? That's right, you invest - in this case time. So prepare accordingly to the conversation before, but not in some way. So that the whole then not again overwhelmed anyway at the moment of truth, you desperately need visual reminders of your preparation, meaning for example a notepad during a telephone conversation. Please only notes, no complete sentences, it must act absolutely natural. Inevitably, the loud utterance during preparation, practicing your issues and never forget you, you talk a little about emotions, about the past, a few personal details and really never, absolutely never, something that can be interpreted reproachfully. This is exactly what distances and distance you've got plenty now, is not it? Ask for uncertainty of a good friend for advice or use our professional email coaching. Try to identify further an appointment to call that gives your / your ex feel you do not wait the whole day on the call, even if we do it, anyway. Strengthen their self-esteem before the call, put on their favorite clothes, make yourself not getting along and that too tight. For a call? Yes exactly, for a phone call !!! ... and so it is also worthwhile: you arrange a meeting with friends or something else that you can enjoy right after the call. Mention this quiet and casual in a telephone conversation, but really only briefly in the subordinate clause. Something like this: Nice to call with you, but right now am still agreed, therefore, have only about 10 minutes, but already we get back, right? Less is more! Find out next time in our series of "less is actually more": as I prepare to face meetings? Do you have the / Ex gain confidence in himself on the way back, with our team you will have a reliable and competent partner at your side.

Why mourning is important

That we suffer from heartbreak, does have a meaning. Unfortunately, you will think now. But just as there is so much my heart is aching and body and soul hurt - heartbreak is a necessary evil. It occurs in a transitional period: we have lost a loved one and need to learn how to deal with this loss. While elsewhere in this portal advised that you should distract from heartbreak, this article revolves around him endure. For although deflection is important, even the grief should not be neglected. Through the sadness we deal with the loss and create long-term space for something new. But when you shut out of grief and instead plunges into new activities or affairs, the grief threatens to eventually come back even stronger. General rule: let them out! Properly auszuheulen eyes again, can be incredibly liberating. And this applies not only expressly for women. Another proven method is talk, talk, talk. Talk to your friends or family about your relationship, your ex-spouse or ex-partner and the problems you had. Tell openly and honestly, how are you, because that reduces the load on their own shoulders.
How to deal with men and women with their grief

Here, however, it seems to be different approaches in men and women: women will gladly assumed that they really want to work up to each their broken relationship, including the hairdresser or nail technician. Whether that's true or not, probably every woman must decide itself, but is clear: women share with significantly more often than men. However, the advice of friends and family is not always helpful: even though they mean well, many tend to dismiss the heartbreak as a snack. Phrases like "Actually, it's better that way, who does not deserve you," or "Forget it, we already find another one for you" are probably the last thing you want to hear now.

Men find it most difficult to talk about their feelings - although this is important especially in relationships. And even if there is a good friend whom they can confide in, it is possible that this often does not know how to deal with what they hear. This then leads to both an unpleasant, embarrassing situation. Therefore, many men need another outlet to deal with their pain. While some kneel in their work, rush in other affairs to stun the grief. On the one hand it helps build self-consciousness, both one's own work is recognized as well as sexual confirmation by more or less casual acquaintances. But on the other hand, men should not replace their broken relationship. It is this error is, however, often done in practice - with devastating effects. Because if you do not worked up the past relationship and duly mourns for them, it is more likely to fall back in exactly the old patterns that have led to the end of the previous relationship.
Professional counseling as a way

If your family and friends take your pain seriously or you do not want to talk about their experiences with them, professional advice is an ideal solution. Our team of experts has already gained a lot of experience with separation situations, heartbreak and grief and offering therefore useful tips and an open ear to the side.

What to do about heartbreak?

Can have one of the most painful experiences heartbreak ever be. A failed relationship not only leads to pain, but often also causes strong self-doubt in us. Our experts and the members of the Board are here to show you that you are not alone with this difficult situation. And more importantly, this article and the other articles by topic "heartbreak" on our website will show you what you can do against lovesickness. In particular, our free emergency assistance package can be a support to you now. But before you begin the healing, it is as important in medicine, is first of all a closer look, which one actually has to do with heartbreak.
What is heartbreak?

We all know the feeling well what it's like to lose a loved one. You feel empty and incomplete, almost as if you had lost a part of his own body. Although one's heart is still beating, it seems as if it would die. And with every second that you spend away from the loved one, it dies a little more. It is as if there were no light in the world and all it wants to do is to go to bed and indulge in the pain. It is this feeling that we call "heartbreak". Ina Gray writes in her article "Experience and processing of heartbreak" heartbreak is "a negative emotional response to an unrequited love, a separation or a threat to the partnership." Wikipedia adds heartbreak is "the syndrome of rejected or unattainable love and includes both physical and mental symptoms. "the physical symptoms include fatigue, restless sleep and loss of appetite. In some heartbreak even cause nausea, abdominal pain and circulatory problems. Here again, the body is a mirror of our soul when we are mentally ill, is this translates to the body. The mental symptoms ranging from sadness, apathy and feelings of loss to depression and, in the worst case, suicide attempts. Of course, we do not want you doing so and help you with our services or products, to defeat the heartbreak. Therefore, you have already made with the visit of our portal the first step to recovery!
heartbreak: What to do?

To crawl in bed and let the pain roll over itself, is probably one of the most common reactions in heartbreak. Other plunge into new projects, parties and affairs - all just to forget the pain and just do not deal with it and the associated memories to have. But be careful! Distraction is good, yes, but Displace the pain, he eventually comes back more violent. Take the time to accept and process your loss. And keep in mind: you are not alone! Our experts will provide first aid tips for lovers valuable advice on how to best deal with heartbreak practical guide SOS. The most important thing is: Talk to someone about your feelings. To open is no shame how many people unfortunately still thinking. You will notice when you are talking with a good friend of yours about your heartbreak and broken relationship, it is as if someone had taken a load off your shoulders. If you want to talk to someone dear who has more distance to you and your situation, our experts are available for you. At any time you can send you an email and tell them your situation. One thing is certain, in any case, Talking is the first step to recovery. Only then comes the distraction. Go out, take a tour, you cook with friends is great for sports - there are endless possibilities! The main thing is, you are active and make your time wisely. Although grief is important, it can not be a permanent condition. Distract yourself that helps automatically in avoiding the most common mistakes in heartache, to help you learn more equal in our Free Report.

You are now probably say, distraction or not, eventually you are alone again, if your friends have gone home. And then your sorrow lurks in every corner again. But it does not have to be! Even if you are alone, you can do a lot in order not to fall back of mourning. You may not thereafter be likely, but make yourself happy music on! Dance like? If so, all the better! Put your favorite CD and sing and dance with, because that brings the endorphins going. Get introduced to it, and banish all thoughts that are concerned with the separation. You will notice that you are feeling better soon.
Overcome heartbreak

To overcome heartbreak in the long term, it is important that you make plans for the future. Therefore it is important that you are clear about exactly what you want. Ask yourself first: Do you want your ex partner? Has your love one more chance? Or should you prefer to set up your energy for a new beginning? This decision can of course only meet alone. Our specialty is to help you regain the ex-partner. With many important suggestions, tips and tricks, our team of experts will show you the way to a future with your ex-partner. You can find first aid in our Free Report "SOS: heartbreak" where we will help you step by step in finding the right strategy to win the heart of your ex-partner again.

Understand and overcome heartbreak

It is not easy to properly deal with heartbreak and not to hang their head in such a difficult time. On the contrary, it quickly falls in love grief trap and turns from day to day only in the so-called lovesickness vicious circle from which one can no longer break so easily and without help. It is not active against his own heartbreak before, so it can quickly lead to severe depression and even in extreme cases, suicide.
Typical symptoms of heartbreak

heartbreak called simple terms a caused by unrequited love depressed mood in our brain. Our happiness is disturbed because we get something in our lives (not more) that makes us happy. Typical symptoms of heartbreak include:

Heart, which is tested for lovesickness.

     Psychosomatic complaints (headache, abdominal pain)
     sleep
     Eating Disorders
     Social isolation by heartbreak
     Problems at work / school / college
     Inability to cope with everyday life
     Displacement of reality
     listlessness
     disorientation
     Etc.

Probably you currently suffer from several of these symptoms? This is normal, the heartbreak runs in all people in very similar phases. It also make almost all people the same mistakes. So I want to tell you, two main things in the following sections:

     The largest preventable errors in heartbreak
     Decide: Should you spend your future alone or with your unmet great love and / or your ex-partner?

1. The largest preventable errors in heartbreak

There are a number of mistakes one makes partly conscious and partly unconscious during the mourning and grief of love. The largest and most problematic error is to take the (previous) rejection by his love or his / n Ex personally and to be insecure as a result. Many people are embarrassed to tell their friends and family that your love is not returned and they were rejected.

Are you all here maybe just like that? If that is so, then you have the rejection by your loved one not only hurt, but it has also shaken your confidence. This can not be and is complete nonsense! No one but you determines what a unique and admirable man you are! Be aware that it is not unusual to be rejected once by someone. That's all, also happened to me a few times. Realize that you would even reject too many people or have even rejected because you would simply feel no deeper feelings for these people or have felt. Keep these people so for losers, inferior or less special? Do other people to these people because of your rejection less respect? No, of course not! We are all special, regardless of how many people love us, and how many people we do not care. Please make sure that if you currently have any self-doubt! Talk to your close friends and family freely about your feelings and your situation, no one will take you evil and no one will have any less like and admire.

Abandoned woman with teddy bear

This is only one of many different mistakes you quickly penalized with heartache, but really you should absolutely avoid. Some of the other common mistakes that are made very frequently include

     His great love chasing and begging in the worst case
     to stalking
     alcohol and drugs is to give the worst case
     poor, poor diet (too much or eat little, drink too little)
     to be completely dependent
     to neglect his social contact
     and so on.

Our team of experts has a detailed collection of errors and measures to prevent and Ausbesseren this error in our Free Report "SOS: heartbreak - The Best Tips & Strategies" together.
2. Your Response: What is your happy future?

There are only two ways how you can overcome your heartbreak in the long run:

     They forget (your feelings for) at the time of your beloved person
     They come (again) with your great love together

Which of these two ways is the right one, recommending, depends entirely on your individual situation. If your chance are good, but still to come (again) with your great love together, then you should try, finally not you fall in love on every street corner. However, you need to consider when making your decision not only your opportunity, but also possible unemotional and rational wonder if your love a "good man", with which you can imagine, a long time, perhaps even the rest of your life to spend. If your great love you have in the past treated badly or have a thoroughly bad character, then you should, as hard as it is, pull the ripcord and forget the bad people.

So it looks natural when your chance to conquer the budding immelte person is insignificant. In such a case, it makes no sense for weeks and months to unnecessary torture. No, again, you should, though with a heavy heart and tears, make the decision to forget that person and prefer to look forward to, hopefully soon get to know another very special person.

I hope I could give you a first help and guidance for managing your lovesickness. Her life goes on and will soon be dominated again by many happy moments. If you follow my advice and take in the best case, a little bit of time to get our Free Report at rest "SOS: heartbreak - The Best Tips & Strategies" read, then you have a good chance to start again the next day with a smile ,

Saturday, January 17, 2015

Give Gifts thereby recover the ex-partner?

Again and again people ask us if you want your ex to send flowers or whether he should not give his ex beautiful jewelry. The answer to this question is a resounding no!

Gifts help in the highest 1% of the cases in the remaining 99%, they are counterproductive. Even if your ex-partner would be the gift you give with the gift of a new love. The ex-partner will thank you, about it is aware that he will is still very important and that was about it. Fall in love he is thus not reflected in you. You can do this by other means, as described in our Ex-Back-package.

There is an exception: If the ex-partner is extremely vary on whether he wants to be with you again or not, the right gift can serve a useful purpose: It is your ex-partner regularly remind to you. But beware: even in this exceptional case, you must give wisely:

     You need to be sure that your ex partner back to you and want only missing the last pulse.
     You must choose your gift so that it does your ex-partner regularly. A cake that is eaten in a day or a piece of jewelry that is not worn, are counterproductive here.

I wish you all the best in your endeavor, your / n ex conquer back!

Friday, January 16, 2015

Ex-wife recover: dream or reality?

It is not always the right decision to try the ex-wife back win at all costs. As a rule, we have to decide between 2 things when we left the ex-wife:

     We try our ex-wife to win back.
     We try as quickly as possible to get over our heartache.

As long as we try our ex-wife to retake, we are generally not our heartache away because we still think of you every day. Our goal is the ex-wife to win back. We will therefore hardly forget.
Helpless man who wants to win back his ex wife.

If the goal is but to control our heartache as quickly as possible, we must make it almost inevitably, to forget the ex-wife and as little as possible to think of them. That will not happen if we want to recover the ex-wife yet.
The decision - Return to the ex-wife or a future without heartache?

Whether we should return to our former wife or not is not always easy to assess. I will not comment on whether our ex-wife is the right woman for life at this point. I can here and now just do not judge those interested should attend the Ex-Back Situation and personality analysis. I want to declare whether it rather - if the ex-wife is the right woman for life - is right to choose not to try to win her back.

If we try our ex-wife to retake and make love again we are investing something: time. I refer not only to time for the purposes of hours, days, weeks, months and years, but rather on time when we feel bad. As explained above, almost all suffer from lovesickness as long as they try to win their ex-wife back. If we decide our ex-wife to move to return an attempt to start, then we decide to also ensure longer suffer in heartbreak when we did, when we would try starting today, to forget our ex-wife.

If we win back our ex-wife at the end, it was the right thing to suffer longer to heartache. If we start at the end but empty, then we would like to have the time of lovesickness already behind us. Say: We'd rather not tempted to return to our ex-wife, but would rather just begun to forget them.

The answer to the question: "Should I try my ex-wife to retake" is as simple as complicated: if it is likely to succeed, then we should try it.

Really makes us smarter this answer is not. Hardly anyone can really estimate how likely it is the ex-wife to move successfully to return. A general assistance to assess their own opportunities offer a study by Love-Care Institute from 2009. You can read about the study in the free "Ex-Back emergency package".
What steps following the decision to win the ex-wife (not) back?

When we come to the conclusion that it is realistic, the ex-wife to recover, then we should consider how we can optimize our chances. I should like to take this opportunity to once on the "Ex-Back emergency package".

But when we come to the conclusion that it is more of a dream to be able to regain our former wife, then we should choose to forget and to control our heartache. In this case, you should in Special Topics more heartache.

Thursday, January 15, 2015

Recover a quick guide to ex-husband

We women are longing for love and security. In the long run we want mostly a family. But what if we were to leave man recently returned from our (ex)? Suddenly we are on our own. We want our man back, but do not know how.

In the article "Ex Back - The Best Tips & Strategies" go my colleagues already on the basic important steps. I would like in this article, therefore, address the differences between men and women. Men think and act differently than we do. We see this all day. In order to regain our former husband, we need to understand how he thinks.

Men are generally much easier than we knitted women. Us women are in a man a lot of different things: He must not only look good, but to be funny, smart and romantic. He will listen to us, fond of children, like our friends and girlfriends and even be as successful in the job. I could continue this list by page.

All of these very important things for us women are first of all secondary to men. Even when men mention from time to time that they want a fun, caring woman as a partner, it's up to you first about two things: The appearance and the "hunter instinct". If we consider these two factors in our behavior, we have the best chance to win our ex-husband back.
the appearance

There is an interesting difference between men and women, I regularly observe in myself and in my environment: If a woman a man does not like visually, it comes with it not together in about 90% of cases.

This is quite different in many women. My current boyfriend has, for example, beginning at all excited me no attention, because it is not just the dream man from Hollywood. He looks completely normal, just a man how to abound sees him day-every day. So it was that we knew each other for quite some time before it sparked. It has not sparked in me because Thomas looked so great, but because he convinced me by his sympathetic smile, his positive attitude and his kindness. However, I'm sure that Thomas was "only" interested in me first of all, because I have it visually pleasing and it did not also made it easy for him to go out with me. This is, of course, has changed in the course of our relationship.

Our appearance is genetically determined to part. But that is no excuse not to work on his appearance. We may very well work a lot on our appearance to clothing, sports, cosmetics and hair style. Our appearance helps us our ex-husband to recover. More we betray our "Ex-Back emergency package".
The hunter instinct

Many of you have probably already heard of the male "hunter instinct": The man always wants to have what he can not get. If he knows that we are hopelessly addicted to it, he loses interest. He needs to do not "hunt" but a simple phone call is enough to meet with us and maybe even get us into bed. The man loses pretty quickly interest in us. The way I have confirmed my male colleagues from our expert teams.

In particular, if we have lost our ex-husband just starting out, we tend to drop everything and leave when our ex calls you and wants to meet us. Unfortunately, this means that in most cases, but not successful. But if we realize our ex-husband in an intelligent manner that we can live without him and make him a bit hard to meet with us, increase our chances of our ex-husband to win back very significant. There is first of all important to avoid some common pitfalls to which we tend after a breakup. The expert team and I are going to our free "Ex-Back emergency aid package" into detail about the error.
How typical properties are men in women?

Everyone is different knit that hits women and men alike. Therefore, various types of men are also to various types of women. However, there are some properties in women stand on the just about all men! Do you know these properties? Discuss with, in the forum topic "What are men? - A collection of the most important properties ".