It is amazing how many people will find the requirements for marriage, if they can legally get married, or perhaps that you can be a church wedding. Yes, these same people do not give a time and I thought that the person they are married to the most appropriate for them. It is so easy to get caught up in the romance of the occasion, and remember that while the wedding day is a big event, this is the beginning of something much bigger.
Getting married is a commitment and should be treated. More and more they have to think that ignoring a joint mortgage, such as getting married. This could be due to the fact that divorce is relatively cheap, unless you have a complicated real estate, or very rich, and it is socially acceptable in most circles. The fact that celebrities and divorce to the husband certainly does not help.
The sad fact is that most people do not walk away from a broken marriage, without pain and scarring. It is hard for all the happiness of another person of your dreams die. And it's even worse when you remember that a significant number of people who divorce, regret. Do not regret getting married, I'm sorry that more divorced!
So what can you do to prevent landing on a similar situation? The first step is to make your expectations realistic. Although it is fantastic that a husband or wife as his best friend, they can not provide you with everything you need. There is a happy individual in its own right, or is that all of you miserable. You need to be independent, even if part of a couple. Be presented to the partners of love, respect and loyalty, while providing them and expecting them to give you the freedom to have a life of its own. Your partner should be able to go out with friends and have fun without the third degree on their return. The relationship will be much more successful if there is room for all concerned to develop and breathe. And if you have kids, be careful, there is still a priority in the relationship, one day they will grow up and leave home, and you do not want to leave the company with a stranger.
You must do things as a couple, and spend quality time together. Cherish the love and respect shown to the other. Surprise your partner with a romantic gesture from time to time, not just the obvious occasions like birthdays, Valentine's Day or wedding anniversary. The Magic have more creative ideas on how to prevent the marriage or relationship to join the list of depressing divorce statistics. So do not worry about the demands of marriage, and focus rather than the two you are ready to keep your distance.
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